If there’s one thing I’ve learned as a newborn photographer, it’s this: the most unforgettable moments often come from the unexpected. One of my favorite parts of any newborn session is when siblings are involved—because what happens in those moments is rarely posed or predictable. It’s real. It’s sweet. And sometimes, it’s hilariously honest.

Photographing siblings with their brand-new baby brother or sister is a chance to freeze time in a way no other photo can. It’s the beginning of a lifelong relationship. It’s messy love. Tenderness in its rawest form. And sometimes, it’s a toddler giving side-eye to their new competition—but even that deserves to be remembered.

Why Include Siblings in a Newborn Session?

It might seem easier to focus solely on the baby—especially when older siblings are energetic, camera-shy, or still adjusting to this big life change. But here’s the truth: those sibling moments are golden.

Here’s why I always encourage families to include siblings in newborn portraits:

• They tell the full story. Your family just grew. These photos reflect the love, wonder, and even the “what is happening?” moments of that transition.
• They spark connection. Holding a baby sibling can help older kids feel included and proud—and that shines through in the photos.
• They grow more valuable over time. A sibling shot might seem playful or imperfect now, but years from now, it becomes a priceless memory of childhood.

How I Approach Sibling Newborn Sessions

Every child is different—and every sibling interaction is unique. Some older siblings are eager to cuddle the baby. Others need time and space. That’s why I approach these sessions with patience, creativity, and zero pressure.

Here are a few things I’ve learned to keep sessions smooth and joyful:

• I start with sibling portraits early while everyone’s energy is fresh.
• I use age-appropriate posing—laying the baby safely next to a sitting toddler, or guiding gentle cuddles with older siblings.
• I keep things playful, using toys, songs, or silly games to get natural reactions.
• Most importantly, I never force it. If a toddler needs a break or doesn’t want to pose, we take our time. Sometimes the most candid, beautiful moments happen between the planned shots.

Preparing Your Child for the Session

A few simple tips can go a long way in helping siblings feel confident and comfortable during the session:

• Talk about the session ahead of time. Let them know what to expect and how fun it will be.
• Let them bring a special toy or comfort item. It helps them feel at ease—and sometimes even becomes part of the story.
• Dress them in comfortable clothes they love. Avoid itchy fabrics or anything they don’t like wearing. Simple, solid colors work best on camera.

In the End, It’s About Connection

Some of my favorite galleries are the ones that include real, imperfect, emotional sibling moments. A gentle kiss, a curious stare, a small hand resting on baby’s head—these are the moments that stop you in your tracks years later.

Because newborn photos aren’t just for remembering what your baby looked like. They’re for remembering the love that surrounded them from the very beginning.